Time - The Ultimate Truth

Actually on this earth there is nothing called eternity, there is really no concept of constancy. What exist is only relativity. Everything is relative  on this huge earth.

Creation is a damn collection of mysteries. That’s why though science has made a great progress in it’s field yet there is certain hidden power that prevails in our nature in front of which we mankind, science our entire source of knowledge goes into vain.

Sometimes which comes into our view may not be true & sometimes which we see also may not be true. So in every case there exist mysteries.

Our technology has reached to such an extent still there are certain questions which remains unsolved which are yet issues of controversies. Take for example- 4D concept, Black Hole, Soul of human being, History behind creation, etc. & a lot many more.

Soul is an inseparable part of human body yet can’t be preserved. Why?? Why we can’t see it?? How life began in earth??What is actually life?? How was life evolved  on earth?? Who has created this creation?? What was the 1^st creature on earth surface??--------- We acknowledge that these are certain questions whose perfect answers are yet unknown. We are still in darkness regarding certain issues of our life also.

So is there anything perfect in this earth?? No actually not.

Destiny is the ultimate truth which determines our birth, death & marriage in front of which our will-power is just a fake.

Yesterday what was someone else’s. Today it is mine. Tomorrow it would be someone else’s. This implies time is the only truth  that exist in our earth.

Now again the question arises if there is existence why there is non-existing objects like soul which exist in non-existence??

Well let me end now. The creation is actually a total mess-up. The more we think the more we get puzzled. Sorry friends for embarrassing you all. But really when these questions comes into my mind it makes me deaf & dumb. At that time only one thought comes into my mind & that is there is no end of earning knowledge throughout our life yet we waste such a lot of time beyond silly things like I  have wasted my time beyond  writing this article & you have already wasted your time till now reading this article of mine… Sorry friends………extremely sorry………

Please forgive me if you can………

Madan Babu-r vuri vojon

Madan Babu-r mey-er biye. Barite khub anondo. Kajer bari bole kotha, horek rokomer lovonio ranna dekhe to jive jol asar upokrom r ki!! Tar opor Madan Babu-r moto petuk manus k samlay kar sadhho?? Se to sujog bujhe kop mere e choleche. Fak pele e topatop mukhe purche, kajer fake fake. R Lilarani debi (Madan Babu-r ginni) khali kortar opor galmondo kore jachhe-“ Nah! Tomake niye ar para gelo na! Ki kukhhone je tomar sathe amar biye hoechilo?? Tomar jonno to dekchi amar nak kata jabe??

Boli hochhe ta ki suni??? Harhabate hangla kothakar!! Khali sobsomoy khai-khai r khai khai”

Madan Babu-“ Ah! Ginni amon sukher dineo amar khaoa tomar chokhe bidche??”

Lilarani debi- “Mey-er biye teo j keu gandepinde gilte pare tomay na dekle bojhe dai. Dekho , patropokhho asar age e abar sob sabar kore diona jano !!!”( Lilarani debi-r prosthan)

Madan Babu- “Jak baba bacha gelo ebar ektu mangso tar sadh neoa jak. Mey-er biye bole kotha!! Bape khabe na to ki paraporsi-der jonno nijer gater kori khosiechi sudhu???”

Patropokhher agomon.

Lilarani debi- “Koi go suncho??? Oi re k achis??? Sobai edike ay re!! Jamai babajibon je ese gelo. Ah!! Ki kando ki kando!! Ulu de re tora sob, sakh baja!!”

Madan Babu taratari mukher ta satie elen- “Koi go ginni dakchile keno??”

Lilarani debi (Korta k arale niye giye)-“Aaaa Molo!! Mey-er biye te ki ami tomar sathe sohag korbo bole dekechi?? Sono….. otith der samne nijer beli ta ektu samle rekho kemon?? Onara jeno kichu ter na pan, ei ami bole dilum. Etuku koro tahole e ami dhonno hoi.”

Madan Babu- “Oh! Ei tuku?? Thik ache. Ta tumi ato raag korcho keno ginni??(Awaj ashe“Mashima…Mashima”) Oi j tomay ora dakche jao odike…”

Lilarani debi-“Hm tai jai!! Tomar moto boshe thakle amar bela gorabe na… Mey ta to aka amar!! Par korar diyitto-o sob amar.Kono rokome  ei kaj te ses hole ami sob bondhon theke mukto. Tarpor ami chole jabo jedike du-chok jabe sedike.”

Mey-er biye somponno holo nirbighne. Raate khaoadaoa holo sobar. Madan Babu-o atta puriye khelen (Bola bahullo onar mukh sobsamay-e cholte thake). Jodio Madan Babu-r sorirta onekkhon dhore e kharap korchilo tao uni kau k kichu bolen ni, vebe chilen kome jabe.Kintu ratre khaodaoa-r por sobai jokhon gumochhe hotat Madan Babu-r sara sorir e oi voyongkor jontrona abar chagar diye uthlo o sorir aro kharap korte suru korlo. Pet e osojhho jontrona. Uni chitkar korte suru koren- “Ore k achis?? Amay bacha….Ore baba re ki kasto re!!!”

Ginni daktar dakte lok pathiye chute ese bole- “Aro khabe?? Ene dobo duto??? Aro ektu khao na, sohag kore, batha jodi kome!!”

Madan Babu-“ Ah!! Ginni moskora hochhe?? Ami morle tomar har jurobe taina??”

Lilarani debi-“ Nago vul bolle, hare batash lagbe!! Sara ta jibon to jalie purie sesh kore dile amar. Sesh boyosh eo amake ektu santi te morteo debena chere chole jabar kotha bolcho (Bolte bolte uni kede felen)”

Edike Madan Babu kromosho jhimie porchen, galar awaj khin hoe eseche. Obostha sochonio. Dactar paoa jachhe na. Obosese Madan Babu-r ontro(small-intestine)  ta berie ashe. Sobai voy pe jai, sobai bojhe ebar ar ses jatra rokhhe holo na bujhi. Obosese oti koste daktar akjon paoa gelo bote. Se elo, ese Madan Babu k porikhha kore bollen otirikto khabar er chape-e ei bipotti (Ontro baire beriye esche) ghoteche.

Dactar babu bollen-“Nin mosai osudh ta nin, jol diye khe nin. Thik hoe jaben.”

Madan Babu oi obosthay o dhukte dhukte bollen-“Dactar!! Tomar oi osud gelar jayga amar pete thakle to ami aro akta rasogolla-e satie feltam.”Bole e uni khanik khan por onar ses nissas tyag koren.”

Dactar kando dekhe bollen- “ Ami amar atodiner daktari jibon e amon khaddopremi r rosik manus dekhini.”

Amra ki nijeke chini???

Amra manus ra ak odvut jeeb. Manus mane naki maan r hush. Kintu sotti e ki tai?? Amra ki jani amra ki chai?? Jodi jani e tobe ato kasto keno sobar jibone?? Aj manus ak jontochalito jeeb e porinoto hoeche. Projukti-r sathe sathe manus er chahidao bere choleche din din. Tai aj amader ke ei prosner mukhomukhi darate hoi- “Proffessional life na Personal life konta besi important?? “ Amra e ki er jonno dayi noi?? Prosno ke matha chara diye othar prosroy to amrai kore diechi. Nijeder ke nijera na chine.

Amader dukhher prodhan karon amra nijerai. Othocho kichu manus ke ami dekhechi koto obolila krome nijeder dosh onner opor chapiye nirbikar thake. Ke nebe er daivar?? Dosh jokhon korecho daivar eriye jaoa keno??

Ajkal manus er sob chai. Dukhher prodhan karon kintu amader chahida, na vul bollam akash kusum chahida. Tobe ki amra sopno dekhbo na?? Ashay buk badhbo na??

Obosso e sob korbo, sob pabo kintu bastober matite pa rekhe. Ta jeno odhora ke dhorte chaoa na hoi! Kintu amra seta e aj vule gechi.

Somporker usnota aj prithibi theke lupto prai. Amrao kemon jeno onuvutiheen nirlipto ak jontro.

Kintu tobu amader pashe niye cholar jonno songi/songini chai. Keno??? Na amar bondhu-bandhobi-der ache!! R amar thakbena?? Tar mane to ami pechiye gelam tike thakar loraiye. Ta to hote deoa chole na. Opor meru te dariye thaka manus tar sathe amar manoshikota miluk r nai miluk, nahoi holo e raat-din jhogra kintu tobu prem to akta holo,show-off to kora gelo take niye kota din??Amar ijjot ta to tike thaklo bondhuder samne!! Ei bostutir nam “EGO” orthat ego problem. R jodi kono karone prem ta na teke tahole opor meru te obosthan kari manus tar opor e je sob daivar chaipiye debo seta ar nischoi bolar opekhha rakhe na!

Kintu bondhura dosh jar e hok hote pare amar, hote pare opor prante obosthankari manus tar o. Kintu prem ta jokhon dujone mile korecho, cholar poth jokhon nijera e thik korecho, tokhon vangle dujonei tar daivar na niye eriye jao keno?? Tobe ki eta ego-r name valobasa noi?? R jodi ba mene ni je opor pranter manus tar e sob dosh, tahole o bolbo, tumi boka hote na chaile, keu ki tomay jor kore boka banate pare?? Sujog ta to tumi e kore diyecho take. Ki kore daoni?? Khub ki vul bollam?? Ektu vebe dekho to…

Amar ak bondhu bole onuvuti-r bapare naki nischit vabe kichu bola jaina.Kintu ami bolbo jodi nai bujhe thako tahole opor pranter manus ke bibroto kora kano?? Tumi jodi eta bojho j tumi baba-ma-r modhhe kake besi valobaso tahole eta bojha ta kothin keno bolcho?? Ma-baba ke valobasar modhhe ki onuvuti thakena, tar mane bolte chao??

Tai bolchi nijeder ke age cheno, jano, bojho. Tarpor onno manus ke kichu bolo. Na bujhe sune kau ke kichu bola uchit noi. Tate cholar poth bikhhipto hoye jai. Tomar o kosto, tomar kacher manus der o kasto. Somossa theke palano mane somadhan theke nijer durotto barano. Nijer mukhomukhi darate sekho. Karon jibon e ontoto akbar holeo manus ke nijer bibeker kache jobabdihi korte e hoi. To seta aj hole, khoti ki?? Tumi sobar kach theke nijeke lukiye rakhte paro, sobar kach theke nijeke aral kore o rakhte paro, kintu nijer kach theke paliye jabe kothay?? Tokhon tar daivar chapabe kar opor?? Kokhono vebe dekhecho ki???

R valobasar manus?? Tar nam tomar mone e lekha ache. Nijeke chinle, tomar valobasar manus ta ke setao poriskar vabe,nischit vabe bujte parbe, take o chinte parbe. Tao jodi na chinte paro nijer chokh bondho kore dekho, ki dekte pachho? kothao ki dekte pachho take?? Jodi na pao janbe jake valo lage se sudhu e tomar moho, r kichu na, ja samoik anondo dai, r kichu na . Chok khule prothom surjer kiron jokhon tomar chok jholse dai, kar kotha tomar mone ase sobar age?? Janbe se e tomar valobasar manus.Tai abar o bolchi sobar age nijeke chena ta besi gurutto purno….

Moner akash meghla thakle, surjo ke dakha jaina, karon ta amader vetore e thake. Sukh nije theke ese dhora daina karo kache… Sukher sothik sondhan korte jante hoi. Amader sukh amara nijera e, amader dukhher karon o amra e. Nije valo na thakle, kau k valo rakha jaina. Bondhu ra moner sob kalima muche, sob sonkirnota vule, sob ovimaan, sob dukhho vule, moner chokh diye prithibi ta ke dakho, dakho eta khub sundor….Notun aloy jholmole akta notun din opekhha kore ache sudhu tomar e jonno… sudhu seta onuvob koro akta poriskar faka mon niye, duto sopnonil chokh diye sobuj-er anondo nao, ghran nao prithibir, kan pete sono notun-er gaan….r???? aro onek kichu…………sudhu onuvob kore jao…sob jhorjol er din er kotha vule….

Jhorjol to thakbe e tabole ki amra bristi k valobasbo na??Ei j kodin age e Gyaneshwari Express-e ja hoe gelo… tabole ki amra ar “Ku-jhik-jhik” kore train e chepe barate jabona?? Rastay durghatona hole ki poth chola bondho kore debo???

Na………. taito?? Tobe?? Ondhokar to thakbe e. Ondhokar er modhhe to akta notun surjo lukie thake. Nirasar majhe e to ashar ghor. Tobe amra keno theme thakbo?Jibon mane to cholomanota, cholos-soktihinota mrittu-r samil.

Chok bondho kore nijeke oi jayga tay niye jao jokhon tumi prothom tomar du chokh diye ei prithibi ta k dekhechile………….Mone pore??? Ma-er koler uttap?? Prothom sneho ar valobasar manus er sporso, onuvob korte chesta koro, dekhbe mon halka hobe….prottek ta din k nijer nabo jonmo hisebe vabo, dekbe bachte valo lagbe…

Jotodin somvob nijer sishu mon ta k bachie rekho, dekbe valo thabe, bissas koro valo thakbe .....

Akjon sishu-r mon diye j prithibi ta k onuvob korte jane, se valo thakte badhho .....

Akjon sishu-r chokh diye je ei prithibi ta k dekhte jane se valo thakte badhho…

Vebe Dekhecho ki???

“Vebe dekhecho ki ?? Tara-ra-o joto alokborsho dure, tar o dure, tumi r ami jai krome sore sore….”

Jibon ta vison  odvut o  rohossojanak.

Amra jokhon  ei prithibi te ashi tokhon amra sobai k dekte pai- ma,baba,dadu,didima,baki attiyo porijon sobai k, sudhu oi manus ta k bade jake nijer ojante e amra akdin valobese feli. Sotti vison romancho kor ei jibon.

Ak odvut jatrapoth, ak odvut vanga-gorar khela.

Valobasa namok jinis tar pechone amra sobai chute barai. Kintu konodin vebe dekhi na ak ojana haat k chute giye amra chena haat gulo k harie felbo nato?? Akta notun dorja diye dhuke giye beronor dorja ta bondho hoe jabe nato?

Valobasa sunechi jibon e rong ene dai- jeta hoito amader jana saat-ta rong keo chapiye jai. Manus tokhon vabonar akashe dana mele urte suru kore. Nijer moner khamoka kheyal e onek nobin, notun diba-sopno dekte suru kore. Sob vastobota k upekhha kore nijeke vasiye dite chai e mon. Kintu amar prosno holo bastob ke niye e jokhon amader bachte hobe to erom sopno dekhe ki lav?? Amon sopno dekhe ki lav ja dhora choar baire??

Valobasa mane ami ja bujhi ta holo- Valobasa mane akjon r akjon k chere na thakte para, Valobasa mane j  kono bahanay , j kono ojuhate khali kache jete ichhe kora. Valobasa mane chok bondho kore akjon r akjon k bissas kora, vorsa rakha.Valobasa mane kokhhono mone dukhho dite na para. Kintu tao ami bolbo, valobasa jeno sarthoporota na hoe othe. Valobasa jeno amon hoi ja sobar jibon k rangiye dite pare.

Sukh du dhoron er hoi. 1-Attosukh.2- Sobai k niye j sukhi thake.

Amar valobasa jodi sobar mone dukhho dai , sobai k niye jodi sukhe bas nai korte pari to jibon ta e to britha.

Biye ta akta samajik onusthan. Sudhu duto manus er milon e jibon somhridhho kore tolar jonno jothesto ki?? Jibonsathi-r mon paoa ta e ki sudhu jothesto?? Tar barir manus gulo jodi amader somporko ta k valo mone mene na nai  ba amar barite o jodi ak e somoshha hoi tahole ki amra keu e sukhi hobo, ta ki haoya somvob?? Atto sukh e ki sob???

Jibon e jodi sobai ke niye e na bachte parlam to bachar ortho ta e to orthohin.

Valobasar manus er jonno nijer apon joneder ki chara uchit?? Na ki nijer aponjonder jonno nijer valobasar manus k??

Konta???

Amar Bondhu-ra tomader ki moth???

Tomader uttorer opekhhay roilam………………………………..

                                                                                                                Tomader opekhhoman bondhu !

Relationship

Today I’m going to draw your attention towards a important part of our life i.e relationship.

As we proceed in our lives we get into several  types of relationship.

The first question that comes into our mind in that - “ What is the funda behind a Successful Relationship?”.

Acc. to me – “A Successful Relation depends not just on the good understanding but depends more on how we avoid a misunderstanding.”

Now we can categorise relationships that we usually come across  our lives as folows:

1.       Blood Relation- That we get by our born with our parents.

2.       Friendship-  An  undefined relationship which is made in heart & which lies above all other relationships existing in this earth.

3.       Infatuation- Just mere liking. It can be well defined as “Out of site, out of mind”.

4.       Attraction- Feeling affinity towards someone like magnet which is temporary in most of the cases.

5.       Flirt- Having fun & timepass with someone.

6.       Crush- At a glance it appears to be love but we realize it was actually not love but something else. This is what     we actually call crush in real life.

7.       Love- Of all pains, the greatest pain, Is to love, and to love in vain. True love is knowing a person's faults, and loving them even more for them. To love some1 deeply gives u strength. Being loved by some1 deeply gives u courage. When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out.

8.       Fling- Getting into a relationship beyond responsibilities.

Marriage- Getting into a relationship with responsibilities